LOVE WITH IRONY

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Those who love too much don't last. But love with irony lasts. This kind of love leads to marriage.

We don't usually marry our first love. We don't usually marry the person who disvirgined us. We don't usually marry the man or woman whom we did so many crazy things for just to keep forever by our side. Most married couples will agree to this.

But we loved these people so much that we wished we would spend the rest of our lives with them.
What happens? Life happens.

Bible says "Too much of everything leads to destruction". As it supports the notion that extremity of everything seals peoples doom.

Look at a bottle, so strong it is. But a quick drop on the floor from a short height it shatters into pieces. So is when love is too strong.

So why doesn't it usually last? Let's analyse.

You met someone, fall in love, got intimate. (No problem with this). Now you grow fond of each other, dazzle each other with love. You can't imagine staying a minute without each other. You're lost inside each other. Still cool.

But here is problem.
Two of you come too close often, got naked countless times, kissed countless times, touch each other countless times, romanced countless times, had sex countless times, stay together for long time. Red light! Red light! Red light!

Two of you now know each other too much including all your secrets. You can predict each other. Nothing else is remaining. What else is there?

So what happens? Saturation. Someone is fed up. You begin to think you're caged and restricted. You begin to see the other person as a burden or paste that is sapping your freedom. You have heard everything, seen everything, touched everything and done everything to each other.

What else do you want from them? Nothing!

Could this kind of love illustrated above be called lust or infatuations?

What does love in irony mean according to the page?

Do you think Agape love is the solution?
Which is the type of love that endures trying times.
Which is the type of love that forgives genuinely.
Which is the type of love that gives without expectating something in return.
Which is the type of love that has been commanded by God to mankind.
Which is the type of love that brings joy, peace and rest of mind.

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